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Parents Toolshop® Newsletter November 2009
"Teaching (and Learning) Gratitude"

In this month's newsletter you'll find:

As we experience the changing of the seasons and the close of the calendar year, many of us look back and think about all we have to be grateful for in our lives -- including me.

This year, especially, I am extremely grateful for my health. Most people don't know that I have been battling a debilitating condition that I quite possibly have had my whole life. I was healed almost instantly once finally diagnosed after two years of horribly painful tests. I am now getting healthy and fit again, grateful to be able to walk outside in the sunshine again.

I am grateful for my husband who kept researching my symptoms when all the doctors were stumped. He, my children, family, and closest friends continued to give me encouragement even during the most difficult times.

I am so thankful for the PTC team. My assistant, Chris Gooley, carried much of my load when I was too ill to do so and did such a good job that we didn’t have to cut back in any way.

I am grateful that in this recession I have been able to grow my business so we can continue serving parents and family professionals during some of the toughest times they've faced in years. I am so blessed to have my business manager, Ashish Sharma, a professional project manager and business planner... and a Parents Toolshop® graduate. He believed so much in our mission that he came on board to support my long-term legacy planning and growth.

I am so pleased to have our newest team members, Deb Ruscitelli (Leader Coordinator) and Belinda Long (Speaker Coordinator). Deb has been with PTC since the beginning (1992) and is finally getting a “seat on the bus.” Belinda is a foster parent who attended a training, shared her expertise and was hired on the spot. They each have stepped into their positions with confidence and competence taking tasks off my "plate" so I can write and speak. I have no idea how I managed to do all of this by myself in the past!

I so appreciate the parents who attend my classes and visit our web site and then send me notes of thanks. It is an absolute gift to hear their success stories, how their lives are less stressful, their children better behaved, and their family relationships healed.

I appreciate each community and program sponsor who recognizes the value of what Parents Toolshop® offers and provides complimentary space and advertising to make it possible for us to provide our programs in a variety of locations.

I am excited about all the new leaders who have come on board the past few months and grateful for the expertise they each have and will be sharing with the parents in their corner of the world when they start teaching Parents Toolshop® and Teacher Toolshop programs.

Every day, I am thankful for all the blessings in my life — and not just when things are going well. When I’m having a rough day or long stretch of bad luck, I remind myself to list all I'm grateful for, naming each person or circumstance. I always say “thanks” for whatever challenge I'm facing at that time. I know it is through those dark times that we grow the most and come to appreciate even more the simple things in our lives.


Dayton-Area Class: Lunchtime Topics Series
"The Secret Recipe For Parenting Success"

When: Every Tuesday Through November 17, 2009 - 12pm to 1pm
Where: Sycamore Hospital, Miamisburg - Cafeteria Dining Room 2

If you've wanted to attend a Parents Toolshop® workshop, but your evening family time is just too hectic, come to this lunchtime topic series during your lunch break. Each session stands on its own; attend each session a la carte or take several for a truly delicious multi-course meal! Here's what we'll be covering in October:

November 3: Cut off "PU" Misbehavior Before You Get "PO'd"
November 10: Take the Bite out of Discipline!
November 17: A Brainstorming Buffet

Each session is $20 for individuals or $30 for couples. Pre-registration is preferred but you can just show up, too! Discounts are available for foster parents, TFN and KHN staff/families, and for CEU participants and groups of 3 or more. For more information, check out the flyer for details


Parents Tool Talk Radio "Teaching Children Gratitude"

This month on the Parents Tool Talk Radio Show, we will discuss how parents can teach their children how to develop an attitude of gratitude in their daily lives.

Our special guest expert is Annie Zirkel, MA LPC. Annie is a Nationally Board Certified Counselor with a Master's degree in counseling from Eastern Michigan University. She has extensive training and experience in parenting education, disability and bullying issues, marriage counseling, business management, and conflict mediation. Annie is also author of the just-released book, You'll Thank Me Later: A Guide to Nurturing Gratitude in Your Children (and Why it Matters).

Some of the topics we will discuss include:

  • The differences between politeness, optimism and gratitude
  • Gratitude in relationships
  • The 4 stages of developing gratitude
  • Realistic expectations for when children can understand gratitude
  • What to do when friends or family members don't encourage gratitude in your children
  • How parents can counter materialism and prevent a sense of entitlement
  • A discussion on the Thanksgiving holiday.
  • And as always, your questions

Show Title: Teaching Children Gratitude
Air Date and Time: Friday, November 13th, 12pm US Eastern Time.
Show Length: 1 Hour

When Parents Tool Talk airs, you can listen to the show LIVE on the Internet by going to:
The Parents Tool Talk Radio Show Home Page

We are currently preparing topics and inviting guests for 2010. Please give us your ideas! Send your ideas and recommendations to Chris Gooley at producer@parentstooltalk.com

For additional reminders about this and future Parents Tool Talk programs, AND access to exclusive pre- and post-show resources and special offers, join the Parents Tool Talk Mailing List! Click here to sign up.


"30 Days of Gratitude" Project

Attention families: Join the 30 Days of Gratitude Project! This project can help your family come together - including your children - to remember the positives in life and all you have to be thankful for. Our November 2009 radio show guest, Annie Zirkel, is spearheading this project

Once you register - you will be signed up for either daily or weekly e-mails reminding you to visit the site and submit your gratitudes. There will be a different daily theme which you can respond to, or you can write any gratitude that comes to mind.

To sign up, go to www.30daysofgratitude.org


Featured Resource: "Dealing With Difficult People"
PLUS a Free Gift!

The holiday season is upon us, and that means get-togethers with friends and family. But what can you do to keep "certain people" from getting you down during this season of gratitude? My teleseminar, "Dealing With Difficult People: Surviving Holiday Get Togethers" will help you protect yourself from toxic or difficult people, both from inside and outside of your family.

Click here for a sample audio
and a link to purchase this valuable resource!


Featured Articles

In the spirit of gratitude and thankfulness, and helping you cultivate these traits in yourself and children, I'm highlighting the following articles this month:


Parents Toolshop is now on pregnancy.org!

I have just been confirmed as a contributing expert at the web site Pregnancy.org.Click here to view my expert page.


Join the Parents Toolshop fan page on Facebook!

Our presence on Facebook is new, and we want it to serve you! Do you have an idea of how we could use the page to benefit you? Would you be willing to post testimonials or stories about using what you've learned through Parents Toolshop®?

Please send us your thoughts, suggestions, or testimonials to support@parentstoolshop.com

To become a fan, simply click here to go to the Parents Toolshop® Consulting fan page, then login and click the "Become a Fan" button!


In closing, thank you for your ongoing support (and for reading this extra long newsletter). I truly appreciate YOU and would love to hear what you are grateful for either by email or on our Facebook Fan Page. I wish you a happy and healthy start to this holiday season!

Yours in service to families,

Jody

P.N. (Privacy Notice)- I will always keep my promise to never share or sell your contact information with anyone, and to only contact you if you have opted into my mailing list.